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| Letters from Natalija Jagafarowa |
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Hello!!! I am so very happy to get a reply from you!!!
The reasonable question is why I chose you at the dating site.
Well, I found you at the site by chance. Telling from the beginning of the
story I know a woman who is on a dating site. That profile wasn't mine,
it was a profile of that woman, but she let me find
someone from the dating site from her profile.
I don't know how to use the site, so I found you by chance and wrote you.
I didn't know what will happen, I didn't know if you write me or not.
But I am glad that we met each other. I have never been looking for a man
via the Internet but I decided to try because very soon I am flying to
your country for working there. I will have a working visa and permission for work.
Why I decided to work in the USA? Well, my friend was also working in
the USA somewhere near Miami about two years ago.
She wad working in a amusement park from 11am till 6pm and then
from 7pm till 3am she was working in a bar as a waitress.
She was always tired but she managed to earn good money.
I decided to work there too.
That friend of mine is in Europe now and she wrote me that
she liked to work in the USA much more the in Europe.
It is not very good to come to some foreign country
without having anybody there who can spend time with
you and show the surroundings and tell me more then I know about
the USA and the culture of this country.I am single now and I hope
to find that spevcial one who can be my soulmate and my life partner.
Right now I am in Russia but like I told you pretty soon I will
fly to the USA so if you are intersted in me, then I suppose you
can forget about the distance between us.
Besides right now we have a good opportunity to know each other via e-mails.
Don't you think so?
I have never been out of Russia and I am open to new
adventures and emotions. I have been travelling only inside of Russia
and I was in the South of Russia which is considered to be a best
place in Russia for summer vacation since there is a Black sea there.
And the most popular place there is Sochi ( the place where will be Olympic Games).
I liked being there because I like warm weather.
As for my visa, it will be issued for three months but if everything is ok,
I can prolong visa up to six months. I was told that after that I even
can go home and apply for a green card.
You probabaly wonder about the level of my English.
Well, I am writing you without any translator. I always liked English language
and I had highest marks in this subject at school and at the University.
I read all books of Sidney Sheldon in the origin without any translator.
But I can't read philosophical or technical or medical books in English
because my level of English is more talkative.
I even took additional courses of English for a few years, though I have
never spoken in English with any English-speaking person face to face,
so I guess probabaly I have a terrible Russian accent!!! :))
We have Discovery channel here in English (my friend has cable TV, so I come
to watch it!). I like this channel so much! Very interesting!
I'm sending two pics, I hope you will like them. I will send more next
time.
Here I live in a small town of Russia and as you understand
the salary we can get in small towns is miserable.
When I am in the USA I can work as a waitress or to work in some shop.
I am not afraid of any kind of job and I like working.
I have got lots of energy and I am not lazy at all.
As soon as I improve my English in the USA I will find some better job.
My trip to the USA will start from Moscow. I will go there to finally arrange
my trip and I have to pass tests of English to get a working visa and
I will have to pass interviewiew at the Embassy to get my visa issued.
I guess everything will be ok.
And I will be in the USA in the first half of October. Here I can earn only
about 100-150$ per month working like a slave from very early morning till night.
I want to try and change my life. I am full of plans and dreams for future.
I hope you will not be disappointed to meet me in real life.
I don't have a special plan or something like that for a new
relationship, I'm open to everything! I don't want to be an abuse for
you, if you don't want me as your woman, we can be just friends!
I had a boyfriend, but it was nothing serious and we broke up one year
ago because he moved to the opposite end of the country, to the city Vladivostok.
OK, I will finish this email... I don't know what else I could write
you in my first email. Your questions are welcomed! Please reply to me
even if you don't like me, because you are the only man I am
responding to. If you don't like me I will continue my search. I hope
so much to receive your answer!!!
I hope we can have a nice communication by emails so I will know
somebody is waiting for me over there! Not so long time to wait for me,
really!!!
I hope you are my soulmate and we can match each other!
Next time I can answer your questions if you have some and tell you
about my family, send you the pics of my family, also more of my
photos!!!
Tell me about yourself and the place where you live! And send me
photos! Sorry for being too talkative!!!
Please don't put off your reply to me!!!! Write me back!!!!
Natalija
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| Letter 2 |
| Letter 2.
Scott, hello again!!! I was glad to recieve one more reply from you and I
thank you for that!!!! You know what? I hope I will be able to come to your area by my
birthday and we shall meet each other!!! This time I will tell
more about myself because if we want to meet each other,
we need to get to know better, I would even say as much as possible.
Well, you already know that my first name is Natalija.
My last name is Jagafarowa. I am 27 years old and I hope I am not that
young for you? My birthday is on 13 October, I will be 28 years old.
I'm 168 cm tall (5.6.) and 51 kg
weight (about 120 pounds, I'm not sure how much it is in pound but I'm
not fat which you can see from my photos!).
I don't know exactly my bust-waist-hips measurements, I
don't have a reason to measure it because I think it's OK and my body
is proportionate )) I like sports and I take care of my body.
I do aerobics a few times a week and go to a swimming pool.
I live in a three-room appartment with my parents, older sister and niece.
My older sister is 31 years old and she is divorced because her
husband cheated her. She has got a wonderful girl of four years.
I have them on my photos. I adore my niece!!! And I love kids!!!!
The name of the city I live in is Gubaha. It is located not far from
Perm city. Gubaha is rather small city unlike Perm which
is the main city in our region.
I wonder have you ever heard of the river Kama? Well, it flows in
Perm and it is considered to be very very beautiful and the water is ecologically clear!
My education: I graduated from Perm State University
four years ago, the dance faculty. Well, I am a professional dancer!
I adore dancings but I don't want to have a
dancer's career because I will have not much time for my private
life and for relationship with a man. So, I work as a dance teacher
and right now I teach kids from 12 to 17 years!
I love kids and I like teaching. I have a certificate of fitness instructor
and dance teacher!!! I am happy that I have this profession and
I think it is a good profession for a woman since I am always moving,
keep myself in a good shape and at the same time I am not so busy!
Do you dance? If not, I can teach you! I dance many different styles. I think
when I come to your city I will work as a waitress in a restaurant.
I would like to work as a dance teacher but as you understand I cannot
arrange such kind of work being in Russia because they will
need to see the level of my dancing.
Anyway I will try to find this kind of work when I come over there. Or maybe
not a dancer but aerobic( fitness) instructor, I think it's also very good job.
In winter I like skiing, although we have cold winters... our summers
are warm usually.
Mom is much younger then my father and they are very happy together. My
mother is a teacher of music at school. I can play piano also, she
tought me to play piano. I finished music school and I still play
piano about once a week. My father is retired engineer.
I cannot say I enjoy one particular type of music. It might sound strange for you but
I can listen to almost everything. The list is endless actually. But anyway,
there are a couple of things I have always enjoyed to listen to.
They are Enigma and Deep Forest. I adore their music. It is so sensual and
helps relax a lot. I also like classic music, jazz, rock, lounge.
I want to try how to ride a motorcycle someday! I've never tried it!
By the way, do you have an International Airport in your city?
Please write me the name and the code of it.
Or write me the name of the nearest airport to you.
I write you my emails from Internet cafe, I don't have my own computer.
If you want I can call you when I'm in Moscow, it would be nice to
talk to you. I will be really happy to call you from Moscow. Now I'm
not at home often and if you call me my father will pick up the phone
and he can't speak any English and he will be shocked to hear the
English speech. I didn't tell him about you but I'm going to
tell him this week-end, I will write you about his thoughts on this topic!
I suppose in few days already I will leave for Moscow and start my trip!
There is no any messenger in this Cafe so we can only keep emailing
each other. I hope you are not getting bored to read my emails?
My address here is:
618250
Russia
Permskaja Region
Gubaha
Zagubashka street 35, flat 13.
So now you know who I am....
I just can tell you that I enjoy life and I try to live to the
fullest, I like to try new things. I'm not that smart.. I was not that
good in mathematics, physics, biology and so on! But I'm very tender,
caring,
artistic, faithful, decent person.
Sometimes I can be not well organized, I think everybody had his own
minuses and pluses.
I don't look for any special qualities in a man. I just hope he will be
faithful to me and ready to create a happy family with me and I will
do everything to make him happy. I'm looking for a soulmate!
OK... it's time to finish my email. I'm sending a kiss by the wind to
you and if I sent it to the right destination you should receive it by
evening )))) I hope you will catch my kiss somehow )))
By for now!!!
Yours,
Natalija
PS. Oh, yes I forgot to add few things...
My mind is always in a mess when I write you because
it's hard to write everything to somebody who is so far away.
I've never been married, I don't have
kids but I love them and they love me! I wrote you I teach children
how to dance and I know how to understand their wishes and worries.
I don't smoke, drink occasionally.
And I want to tell you that I always wanted to find an older man.
Why? I have two answers..
First, I think older men are much more serious and they can take
care of me, they are more experienced in life and can teach me many
things. "The older the violin, the sweeter the music" I believe in
it...
I think I'm not that young already but I
don't have much experience in life and I want to have someone who has
more experience in life then me.
Second... maybe I'm not right about it... but I want to be honest
I've always had such worry... if I marry a man nearly my age...
and after some years I will become not that young and beautiful... I
think it's more hard for a woman to be attractive then for a man...
and he will find a younger mistress and I will become very miserable.
I don't want my man to be unfaithful. I know I can be faithful to my
man and I will never cheat on him.
But this is just my worries. This is not my goal. Please tell me if
you think you will love your woman at any age and not find a younger
one? Can you be faithful?
I think it's better to forget about one's age, age is just a number.
I became attracted to you and I
really want to meet you. If you will not like me or something else we
can be just friends.
I hope I will get my work visa soon in Moscow and all documents and
come to you! I don't have any area limits with this visa so I can work
where I want on the territory of the USA.
And one more thing.. I'm sending a few pics of me, my sister and one of the photos
was taken in the cave near the city Sochi.
I'm just trying to be honest with you and write you all my thoughts on
different issues. Please be always honest with me also....
I think I will write you tomorrow, I will see if I have more nice photos to send
you.
Kisses to you and have a good day!!!!
Yours,
Natalija
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| Letter 3 |
| Letter 3.
Scott, like always I am glad to get a reply from you and
I think I am a lucky one because I met such a wonderful man like you
in the Internet! And I also hope I will be lucky to meet you in real life soon!!!!!!
You know yesterday I told my parents about you.
Now I guess they don't worry about my trip so much, at least I hope so.
I was tyring to calm them down because I don't want them to be nervous
about me and though I am almost 28 years old, I am still a little girl for my
parents and I will always be. Now they know that you are a kind man
and help me if I need your help. You can show me your city and surroundings
and tell me about the culture of your country and about the life over there.
I don't remember if I told you that I love cooking. I will cook some tasty Russian
food for you and you'll tell me what you think.
Most famous food in Russia are Pelmeni, vareniki, blini, borsch, okroshka!
I bet you will like it!!! I also like Italian and sea food.
I love lasagna and pizza!!!!!!! Yummy! I am the best in cooking lasagna,
this is what my friends and family say. I also love Mexican food because it is spicy,
though I don't cook Mexican food too often. I love Italian food and I like coking lasagna.
I like cooking cakes and try something new!
My favourite is cheese cake with raspberry!!!
Hm, you know when I talk about food I am getting hungry:).
I eat everything and I am not on any kind of diets, I just don't eat after 7pm.
It also helps me to be in a good shape. I can cook many tasty things for you when we meet!
Ok, enough about food!
You know ...almost all Russian men are like bears, they are very rude and dishonest.
They can't be nice and polite. They can't be jentlemen!
They don't want to work and they don't want to have families since it is a big
responsibility to have a family. Judging by your letters you are absolutely not like
them and I happy to know that!!!
I like to go to the cinema! I really like to watch a good movie with
my friends. 50 percents of movies in our cinemas are Russian and about 50 American.
Yesterday I was watching "Pirates of Carribean" (part 3) I really like such kind
of movies!!! If you didn't see this movie yet, I would advice you to watch it!!!
Could you recommend me any American movie so I can watch it?
What is your favorite movie and actor?
Some time age I watched 'Perfume' (by a novel of Patrick Zuskind).
I've read this novel and I like it so much! Breathtaking! Anyway I
think
the book is better then the movie.
Soooooooooooooooo......... what else could I say?
I have a driver's licence but I don't have a car. My father has a
Russian car and he gives me his car sometimes.
I also like theatre and opera, I like ballet too.
Unfortunately there is only one small theatre in my city and there is
nothing interesting. If I want to go to ballet, for example, I should
go to Perm, there sometimes can come famous Russian actors and
dancers but I can't go there often because it's quite expensive.
And now I have some good news for you! After sending this email I will
go home, take my bags and go to Perm! From there I will fly to
Moscow! I was
on a plane only two times in my life and I'm afraid to fly! I hope my
plane will not fall down! I'm really afraid! So it is two and half hours of flight
from Perm to Moscow and I will come to Moscow late night. I don't
think I will live in hotel there, it's very expensive. You know, due to
statistics Moscow is the second most expensive city in the world after Tokyo.
I will rent a room in apartment, it will be cheaper then renting a room
in a hotel. Of course it will be very modest but it's OK for me!
When I come to Moscow and settle down I will write you an email. I
will write you as soon as I can!!!
In Moscow I will spend a week or maybe even more, I should make all
final arrangements with my documents and after that I will come to you!
I've never been to Moscow before and I'm so nervous now... I've never
went somewhere alone and now I should go alone to such big city!
You know... I had such great desire to start my trip already.. and now
I feel myself like a newborn kitten who has even didn't open his
eyes... I just want to hug my mommy and don't want to go anywhere...
but I know that's my dream to start a new life and I will try to turn
in to reality! Soon you will hear some news from me from
Moscow!!!!!!!!
Many kisses to you!
I hope I'm the one for you!
From nervous and excited Natalija
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