Russian women scam, girls black list, dating scammers database: Scam report

Reported by dbeach

KSENIYA GAYVORONSKAYA - Stay away! She is a scammer! I met Kseniya online more than 2 years ago. Our relationship became very serious. I visited her in Kherson, Ukraine 4 times. On my second visit to her, I proposed marriage. She accepted my ring and proposal. She said she wanted to share life with me. The problem was... as she told me... her parents had abandoned her and her younger brother. She we caring for her brother. She said her parents would return to Kherson in a few months and then we could be together. Well, after a few months, she said her parents could not return and it would be a few more months. We continued to correspond by email and text messaging. We made plans for our future. Also in 2007, I had a short business trip to Moscow. I invited her to join me. I sent her money for travel and to help cover her week of lost pay. She sent me her travel information and the train station to pick her up at. I went to the train station in Moscow and looked for her – 2 hours I looked. She was not there. The next day, I received an email from her. She was upset and crying... she said she was there waiting for me. Then she returned to Kherson. I asked why she did not call me on my mobile phone ( I have a local phone number in Moscow). She said she could not find a phone to use. Well, there are many public pay phones in the train station. But, she continued to make me feel guilty and I desperately wanted to believe her. So, I believed her... like an idiot. In 2007, she emailed with pictures of her bruised face. She said she was in a bad taxi car accident. She said because she was hospitalized, she lost her job. I financially cared for her and her bother ALL of 2008. I estimate I spent more than $5,000 in 2007 on help and gifts for her. In 2008, I sent her more than $18,000 to care. And I spent many more thousands of dollars on gifts. I have saved all my emails and money transfer records.... if anyone would like to see. My last trip to see her was in December 2008. She promised that her parents would return after the new year. She said they owned the apartment she and her brother lived in and they would return to sell the apt and care for her bother. But, she had no details of their return. This last visit she seemed very evasive. Not wanting me to visit her apartment. One day, she had to care for her brother because she said he had a fever. Then the next day he was remarkable better (perfect health) and we all went to the zoo together (it was fucking COLD). Then the next day, her bother was ill again. As you can imagine, I grew impatient from all this. Also, during this trip I began noticing some little lies that she had told me over the past year in emails. She would tell me I was mistaken and try to make me feel guilty. But, I would show her the emails and there was little she could say. I also learned that she had NO travel documents.... she told me this. It is impossible for her to travel outside the Ukraine. I then asked, what about your trip to Moscow she made and “waited” for me at the train station. She pretended not to understand. Then just before christmas, she text messaged me that she was ill and in the hospital. I visited her in the hospital.... her friend Lera took me. She told me that she had woman problems. She said she would be in the hospital for 2 weeks. She expected me to remain in Kherson and come visit her in the hospital each evening. That was all I could take. I left Kherson. She was very upset with me and again tried to make me feel guilty. Saying that her death would be on my hands. I later learned that she worked at this hospital. It appeared that she worked nights and wanted me to come to the hospital at night when she was there working. Then she would pretend to be a patient. This deceit is unbelievable! I hired a private investigation company to check on her. I learned where she worked. I learned that her parents do not own that apartment. I also learned that there is no record on file with the police of a car accident requiring a passenger (her) to be hospitalized in December 2007. It was just another lie to play on my compassion and get money. We stopped corresponding and she changed her phone number. It was devastating to me to realize that she had been scamming me and playing with my love and compassion for 2 years. She never had any intention of marriage. I was a job to her. Bullshit me for pity, money and gifts. I am appalled that a person could do such things. I would highly recommend, spending $1,000 on a private investigator to look into any foreign woman you have begun a relationship with. I spent more than $30,000 over 2 years in support, gifts and travel. A $1,000 would have been well worth it. I have been burned by USA women and now foreign woman. It is incredible to me that a human being could do such things. In my opinion, what these women do is just as terrible as rape. Of course, women will argue with me on that. But, 2 years of lies, guilt and scamming and then learning that you have been used. I am scared for life. I cannot trust and will not trust a woman the rest of my life.

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